Very busy but fun weekend - HUGE Thanks to NoSafeWord.com

This has been a very busy, but a very fun weekend.  I really enjoy the things that I do, why else would I do them right?

Friday night I had the great honor of being welcomed onto the No Safeword Blog's podcast show with Sparky and Daddy Tony.  The show is fairly new, and I will be featured on episode 10 that will release in a few days.  They have a great format including current affairs, funny news stories, and interviews/conversation with community members.  They also have a great way of taking serious topics and make sure that people can have an open dialogue about them.  Their theory about the show is to have conversations about Leather/Kink/SM in ways that you would have with your buddies over cocktails.

We talked about a number of things including why it is so important to respect other people in the community and make sure that they want to stay involved in the community.  Afterall the work that all of us do in the community is all volunteer based, you have to give people reason to want to stay involved, and having fun should be the top of that list.
We also talked about why it means so much to me to be involved with my Leather Club, Panther L/L, and what my club brothers and sisters mean to me.  I am very proud that our club will be celebrating our 25th anniversary here in a little over a month.  I have some club brothers/sisters that are closer to me than some of my blood family, and there is nothing I would do to help them if it is within my power.

Be sure to check out their site at:
http://nosafeword.com/
Their podcast is so great.  I have actually had to stop listening to it at work because I started bursting out laughing out loud.

I'm very happy about the fact that they have already said that they want to have me on again in the future, and I'm already looking forward to it.

I still find it hard to believe that over the last several years I have gotten as involved in things as I am now.  I used to very much be the wallflower that stood in the back and watched everyone around me have fun.

Then Saturday Night we hosted our quarterly Fetish Night to benefit Southeast Black and Blue, LLC.  We host this party at the Atlanta Eagle every time that there is a 5th Saturday in a month, and this time the theme was Superheros.  We packed the Atlanta Eagle with Superheros and Villains alike ranging from Super Bunny, to Super Cock and Bottom Boy, to Venom, and even Boris Natasha and Rocky showed up!

All in all this was a busy weekend but it was so much fun.  Now its time to get ready for Atlanta Leather Pride thats now less than two weeks away WOOF!

Pup Nitro
International Leatherboy 2011

Community Building Vs. Community Destruction:

Community Building Vs. Community Destruction:

Trust me I know that our world needs balance to survive.  The poles of a magnet, Summer to Winter, Night to Day, the inevitable Yin to the Yang.  In Fact my very first tattoo includes the Yin and Yang to remind me of just that fact.  However, there is one polar opposite that I have never quite grasped the concept of.  That is the existence of people who spend all of their time and energy into destroying what they claim to love so greatly.

I am very proud of the fact that I have been involved in the Leather & Kink Lifestyle and Community for ten years now.  In Fact I devote a majority of my free time to promoting events within the Community, as well as working to try and harbor our growth within the community. We have a very strong foundation thanks to all of those that have come before us, and I greatly appreciate all of that groundwork that has been done.  I very much respect those that have come before me and spent their lives building the framework of what we have today.  However, it is my opinion that those of us that are here now can’t simply rest on our laurels and accept what we have today.  Our Community of today can be much better and much stronger, and my goal is to help take it one step closer to that place.  I devote countless hours into producing events that give people a safe place to come and explore who they are, teach classes using the “Each One, Teach One” philosophy, and just doing what I can to insure that we have a future.

One thing that has always baffled me is that there are those around us that are counterproductive to this effort.  There are those out there within our community that are doing the very polar opposite of what I am working so hard for.  There are those out there that will spend their time bad mouthing events to keep people from going to them, trash talking Leather establishments to keep them from getting new patronage, and sending vicious e-mails to the very people that work so hard to try and build their community.  I have even received e-mails and Social Media messages before questioning my integrity as well as that of my family and loved ones.  I have even had people go to events and show affiliates of my organization fake e-mails saying that one of the organizations that I am most proud of is going to be shut down, getting kicked out of our home establishment, and that we are no more.  Really? The ironic thing about these e-mails questioning my integrity is that they are always under a fake profile, with no pics or identifiable information to show who the sender is.  Hmmmmm makes you wonder doesn’t it?  Who is really the one with nothing to hide?  The one that is out there busting his hump to make sure that we have a future, or the one who is hiding behind the veil of a screen destroying brick by brick?

It is very frustrating to me to have to dodge these blows, but I’m going to keep doing it. I am a very strong man and I’m going to be the one standing at the end of all this.  I fully believe that Karma is just waiting for the right time to strike, and trust me she is getting plenty of ammunition.  The sad part about the situation though is there are plenty of people not as strong as I am.  It makes me wonder how many people before me have been attacked in this same manner and just thrown their hands up and said “SCREW IT”.  How many people have walked away from this world and decided that they didn’t need the strife?  How much better would we have been if we had those people’s positive energies around us still instead of the venom that is festering around the floor like a pool of toxic waste?

I say that it is time to bring those Light Sources back into our fold.  It is time for us to bring our Brothers and our Sisters back with us and stand together.  Let our Light shine brighter than any darkness that the others can muster, and we will be the ones still standing in the end.  I am a part of this community because I appreciate what it has done for me over the years.  I know that I am a better man because of what I have been able to learn from those that came before me, and I hope that one day someone can say they learned something from me too. 

I’m not going anywhere, I have been trained to have thick armor, and I am the one that is going to be standing when the dust settles.  I’ll be standing right alongside my Family, my Brothers, my Sisters, and my Friends. 

P.S. Don’t forget I’m also a Bull Terrier…. I’m playful and light hearted…. But, if you make the wrong step towards my family then my jaws are going to clamp down on you and won’t release until I hear a SNAP.

Wow - It has been 363 days since I won the title of International Leatherboy 2011.  What a year its been.  Everyone has been asking me if I'm sad that I'm stepping down. The answer is "No".  This year has been incredible for me, and it is far from over.  However, it is now time for the next boy to write his chapter.
Thank you so much to everyone who helped to support SIR Alan and I this year we really appreciate it.  This year has meant so much personal growth for me in ways that I never really thought would happen. I had so many emotional breakthroughs this year that were not even on my radar to accomplish.
There is so much that happened to me this year that I could probably crash BlogSpot talking about it.  I'm just going to sum it up and say THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.

Today I sit here in the hotel for ILSb/ICBB 2012 enjoying breakfast before we get ready to go to the Producer's meeting and the contestant's meeting for this year's contestants.

Good luck everyone and have fun!

pup Nitro
International Leatherboy 2011

Reflecting back on 2011....

Tonight is New Years Eve to bring a close to 2011 and usher in 2012.  If someone told me this time last year that in only twelve months I would be writing a blog post about what an amazing adventure 2011 had been, I would have accused them of getting into the bubbly a little early.

As cliche as it may sound, this year has been the best ever.  Not only with the great places that I have been able to go as International Leatherboy 2011, but also with the great time that I have been able to spend with my Family.  SIR Alan, slave scott, myself, and our beautiful dog Sandy moved into a great house earlier this month.  We are very much enjoying the space and privacy as we settle in to our new home.  Next step is setting up our 400 sq ft dungeon space.

I have gotten to speak to many boys who are in the same position I used to be in of trying to get out of abusive relationships, or trying to deal with the after effects, and I think that I have been able to touch some of them.  That in itself has been worth everything.

I don't know how else to put in words that this has been an amazing and wonderful year, and I very much look forward to seeing what happens next year.

Bring on 2012!!!

pup Nitro
International Leatherboy 2011

Twisted Toyland 2011

On Saturday December 17, SIR Alan and I helped alongside our club brothers and sisters of Panther L/L, at Twisted Toyland.  Twisted Toyland is a local event here (see below for history) that happens every December to benefit the Atlanta Community Foodbank.  They have TONS of BDSM vendors along with raffle prizes and great demos.  Plus its just a heck of a lot of fun.  SIR Alan certainly left his fair share of bite marks and bruises on willing recipients, and we also got asked to do a Dirty Santa scene on stage LOL.  All in all we had so much fun and I am already looking forward to next year.  If you’re ever in Atlanta in early December be sure to check it out for sure.

Pup Nitro
International Leatherboy 2011

(From Elegant, Co-Producer of Twisted Toyland)

For ten years the metro-Atlanta alternative lifestyle community has helped raise money for those less fortunate at Twisted Toyland. The giving tradition continued this past weekend as a record total of 503 people enjoyed the Twisted Toyland™ festivities at the Jungle Club. That included the 67 volunteers, chili makers and sweet treat bakers and 20 merchants with their 38 staff workers.   

 

This year the Atlanta Community Food Bank is the recipient of the $3500 net profit raised from admission, food sales, raffle tickets and the Erotic Candy Cane Contest. 

 

The Atlanta Community Food Bank currently distributes nearly two million pounds of food and other donated grocery items each month to more than 700 nonprofit partner agencies in 38 counties in Metro Atlanta and North Georgia. The Food Bank also operates several community projects to aid childrens education, community building, technical assistance and advocacy efforts. For every dollar spent, 94 cents (including the value of all donated food) goes directly to services in the community. 

Twisted Toyland™ began in 2001 as Atlanta Fetish Flea Market. by Elegant, slave to Master Archer. It was planned as a small vending event to raise medical funds for bob harris, boy of Papa Doug Harris (founder of the now defunct Sanctuary Atlanta). Boy bob died of AIDS before the event but funds raised from the 75 shoppers were put towards his medical expenses. Twisted Toyland has grown each year and various charitable organizations and individuals have benefited from the event.

   

Plans for Twisted Toyland™ 2012 are already underway.

 

Regards, 

Elegant, Margit, Sonya 

Twisted Toyland Producer Elves 

My brother Rene - an amazing Leatherboy and Leatherman

Not only was I invited to be in Calgary Canada this past weekend for the Western Canada LeatherSIR/boy contest.  I was also personally invited by one of my classmates from ILSb 2011 to be beside him for the end of his Regional Year as Western Canada Leatherboy 2011.

I may have only met boy Rene Hebert four short months ago, but he has quickly taken hold of a close spot in my heart.  In just four short months I have gotten the chance to watch boy Rene grow in ways that I’m not sure he thought possible.  To say that I am very proud of him would be a gross understatement.  Not only did he do an amazing job during his Regional title year by doing everything within his ability to see as much of his huge region as he could, but he also made his Family, Friends, Producers, and Country proud by being named First Runner-Up International Leatherboy 2011. 

To put it simply, boy Rene is the embodiment of what running for a title is all about.  It isn’t about being on the top of the world, or being the center of attention (Although trust me, you do end up getting a lot of attention LOL).  Running for a Leather Title is all about becoming a stronger, more confident, Leatherman/Leatherwoman. 

I know that boy Rene’s Regional Title year has come to an end, but I also know that the journey that this has started is just beginning. 

I don’t say this very often, because to me these words are very sacred, boy Rene Hebert is truly my Brother until the end, and I am humbled and honored to call him one of my dearest friends.

I love ya Eh ya Hoser!

pup Nitro

International Leatherboy 2011

A Southern Pup's Journey to the Frozen North (Western Canada LeatherSIR/boy contest)

I have never been tempted to start a blog post with the word “Y’all” so much in my life (insert “eh?” here) as I do right now.  I am sitting on a Delta flight from Calgary, Alberta, Canada on my way back to the U.S. and the Dirty South.  There were certainly plenty of people who got a kick out of my Southern phrases this weekend, and I even got the chance to throw around an “Eh?” here and there myself. 

SIR Alan and I flew off to Calgary this weekend on our first International Trip.  We were invited there to judge the Western Canada Leather SIR/boy contest alongside our classmates from ILSb, Sir Chuck and his boy Iain, Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/boy 2011, and Rob who is one of the producers of the awesome rubber event Rubout in Vancouver.  Sir Scott and boy Renee, Western Canada LeatherSIR/boy 2011 (boy Renee is also First Runner-Up International Leatherboy 2011) elected to emcee the event instead of taking a seat on the judging panel.

I must say that leading up to the weekend SIR Alan and I were certainly a little intimidated by the weather forecast, as it was scheduled to drop down to WHOA DAMN COLD as I called it, but I would not have traded it for the world because of some of the beautiful scenery the cold allowed us to see.  We were taken by one of the Regional Producers (Thanks Mr. Jimmy!) up to a local retreat town of Banff which is located in the Canadian Rockies and I got to see frozen bodies of water for the first time in my life.  I even got to see a waterfall that was frozen over.  As most people know I am totally allergic to nature, but even I have to admit that the site was simply breathtaking.

Friday night we kicked off a meet and greet at the Calgary Eagle (Awesome Bar by the way), and we were treated to some Western Canadian Hospitality.  The judges and crowd got the chance to meet the three contestants for this year’s contest, SIR Marc, boy Daniel, and boy Berith.  Saturday morning we all met back at the Eagle for the private interviews of the contestants followed by some great workshops.  This is the first year that the contest has included public workshops for people to enjoy, and they certainly went over very well.  Sir Chuck and his boy Iain taught a great Electro class focusing not only on Pleasurable E-Stim, but also Electro Torture.  Soon after that Sir Scott taught a hot wax play class. 

Saturday night after an amazing home cooked dinner by Sir Jonathan’s boy we all geared up and headed back to the Eagle.  Within minutes of walking in the door we were greeted by more of that Famous Western Canadian Hospitality…. This time in the form of shooters LOL. 

The bar was packed wall to wall for the evening’s contest, and everyone sure as hell enjoyed the speeches, jock strap presentation, as well as Fantasy scenes that were all well thought out by the contestants.

At the end of the evening the new Western Canada LeatherSIR/boy pair for 2012 was named as SIR Marc and his boy Daniel. 

I would like to congratulate each and every one of the contestants from this year’s class because in just a short weekend’s time I got the chance to see each of them grow.  Great job guys, I look forward to watching you over years to come.

We had a blast!
pup Nitro
International Leatherboy 2011